I’ve heard cases where a couple agreed to never have kids before they get married. But the wife changes her mind (sadly) but her husband still resists. She plots a scheme to do whatever it takes to get pregnant, such as poking holes in a condom, or lying on birth control. She gets pregnant, which causes the man to hate her and abandon her and the child.
How often do women succeed in getting pregnant "accidentally"? Why would they do that? Is it to keep a man?
As for me, I would hate to be in that situation because I’m childfree (no judging). If men never want children, they should have vasectomies before they settle down with a real, good woman.
Yeah, and the ones who left me hateful responses are blocked. And what does race have to do with not wanting children?
Unfortunately it happens quite often. BUT I have to say it is just as much the mans fault as it is the womans. Everyone knows birthcontrol or condoms are NOT 100% so they should always know that engaging in sex could result in pregnancy. When it comes to pregnancy I dont think there are any "accidents" since both parties are going in knowing nothing is 100% effective. If a man tries to blame a woman for "accidently" getting pregnant, then that man is an idiot. I agree with you and think that if a man wants to remain childree they should get a vasectomy as well as women should get their tubes tied if they want to remain childfree.