How do i get rid of being pregnant without getting an abortion or an abortion pill?? Please help me plese?

Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex and im having all the signs of being pregnant i dont know for sure if i am but im pretty positive. I dont want to be pregnant and if i am how do i get rid of being pregnant without getting and abortion or getting the abortion pill. Please help me i dont want to be pregnant please someone help me out.

A baby isn’t something to "get rid of."

"getting rid of" a baby would be abortion, by definition.

Seriously. What kind of question is this?
If there was a way to end pregnancy without an abortion (which literally means, to bring an end to something, in this case pregnancy) abortions wouldn’t happen.

Stop being irresponsible
You’re having unprotected sex.
What did you THINK was going to happen?

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  1. echuca03 Says:

    Without an abortion, you just have to wait and in about 40 weeks, you won’t be pregnant anymore.
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  2. motherof1#2due07/04/2009 Says:

    well you could try using condoms and or birth control next time and you won’t hae to worry about getting pregnant. but you could always hope for a miscarriage, the only other way is to get an abortion, or put the kid up for adoption if you could stop being selfish. but i would find out for sure if you are pregnant first before you stress about it.
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  3. gurl2work Says:

    you shouldn’t of had unprotected sex if you didn’t want to get pregnant. your gonna get a lot of criticism from this question.. having a baby is a wonderful thing. maybe you can give the baby up for adoption instead of ruining its life… there are woman out there just praying to have a child…
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  4. Baby Joel is due 12/22/08 Says:

    A baby isn’t something to "get rid of."

    "getting rid of" a baby would be abortion, by definition.

    Seriously. What kind of question is this?
    If there was a way to end pregnancy without an abortion (which literally means, to bring an end to something, in this case pregnancy) abortions wouldn’t happen.

    Stop being irresponsible
    You’re having unprotected sex.
    What did you THINK was going to happen?
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  5. lonestarmama Says:

    You get rid of the pregnancy by giving birth to a child…. voila, not pregnant anymore!

    Anything you could do to to encourage a miscarriage is the equivalent of having an abortion, but you run the risk of doing severe damage to the developing baby should you not miscarry. That would be an incredibly selfish act that would only cause you more grief down the line should you give birth to a child who isn’t "normal."

    If you are pregnant, adoption is always an option. There are tons of families who desperately want a child and can’t have one, so it would be a chance for you to bring life into the world and give the gift of a child’s love to a family who wants that child.

    I had a miscarriage, and even though I was terrified to be pregnant, it was the most devastating experience of my life. My friend had an abortion 7 years ago and she still regrets her decision when she sees her son and realizes that he should have a big brother or sister.
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  6. Dave Says:

    If you really get the feeling of being pregnant then I will bet that you probably are. Women who are pregnant usually know it.

    You need to get some god damn contraception for Christ’s sake. But I’m not gonna preach to you because I realize that things happen and hindsight is 20/20. Everybody lives and learns. And don’t listen to some of these sanctimonious people who are going to try and lecture you on how abortion is murder and whatnot. Jacking off is murder too by that logic, as is having a period.

    Look, right now it’s just a clump of dividing cells and that’s it. You need to go to the doctor and get it taken care of. Take a mulligan on this one and have kids later when you are in a better position to do so. It’s a little too late to get on your anti-abortion high horse now, isn’t it? Look at it this way- yes that clump of cells will become a child given time and cultivation, but right now it’s not so don’t hesitate.

    You can’t shove hot sauce in there or eat raw fruits and vegetables from Mexico and get rid of this. A nice, swift shin kick to the gut isn’t going to save you (at least not yet, but that would be pretty macabre). There is no home remedy. You’re not getting rid of this s**t that easily. So quit with the dog-and-pony show and call up Planned Parenthood. I have 3 kids and I would have never gotten rid of them because I wanted them, and I loved my woman more than life itself. But boy would my life have been much worse off if I had a kid with some of those skanks that I was messing around with when I was a teenager just because some a holes were pointing their fingers at me and telling me what right and wrong is.

    Planned Parenthood- Just Do It. But hey, if you want to give it up for adoption that’s even better yet! But in this day and age they will eventually find you so be ready to deal with that.

    P.S. All these chicks that are lecturing you about how stupid and irresponsible you are, I would bet dollars-to-donuts that EVERY SINGLE LAST ONE OF THEM has had a dick stuffed in them with no protection at some point in their lives. They have no right to pontificate or even to judge you. They don’t know you and they don’t know a thing about your situation. But clearly this isn’t a moment to pass out cigars, so that tells me that it’s time for you to take action both right now and in the future to prevent another occurrence of this scenario.
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  7. I LOVE VEGAS!!! Says:

    In 9 months you can push the baby out, then you won’t be pregnant anymore.

    You do know how people get pregnant right? If you aren’t ready to be a mom, why the hell are you having unprotected sex? That’s irresponsible for you to do that, and why should the unborn baby have to pay because of your lack of self control. A condom takes how long to put on, 2 seconds. If you are looking to get "rid" of your baby, the only option would be an abortion or the pill, but please from now on, have your boyfriend wear a condom.

    To the person above me-The only person that has stuffed his dick in me without a condom is my husband. (I was too afraid of getting pregnant or getting some gross yucks down there when I was 16.) And yes before we were married he did too. That is why we have a 10 year old son, but NEVER did I once think of getting "rid" of him, it wasn’t his fault that I became pregnant with him. The girl needs to understand if she’s not going to use a condom, then duh, pregnancy is bound to happen. If she didn’t want to get pregnant then she should have used a condom, right?
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  8. Fiona Says:

    Well I think the first thing you should do is take a pregnancy test and actually find out if you are indeed pregnant.
    Second, you need to take some damn responsibility for your stupid immature actions…what did you think was going to happen after having unprotected sex???
    The only way you can "get rid of being pregnant" is to get an abortion.
    If you don’t want to be pregnant you should think twice about having sex…and maybe wait until you’re a little bit more mature.
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  9. Goldair Says:

    I am guessing that you are young. Sometimes, unprotected sex happens. Sometimes even when you use protection, the contraception can fail. The first thing you need to do is get a pregnancy test. If the test shows you are pregnant, then you need to count the number of days since the first day of your last normal menstrual period. This will be the gestational age of the pregnancy. You did not mention that you had missed your period. This is usually the first sign of being pregnant.
    There are some things you can do in early gestation to encourage your body to miscarry the pregnancy, but there is not enough room to mention them here. There is a new book out on the subject of self-induced abortion, called Natural Liberty: Rediscovering Self-Induced Abortion Methods. It is available for preview on Google Books:
    http://books.google.com/books?id=pPS7BpHnzhMC&client=firefox-a
    And there website has some free information for download:
    http://www.sagefemmetoday.com
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  10. gidget Says:

    Well first of all, you need to get a test to make sure you are even pregnant. I would look for a crisis pregnancy center or pregnancy resource center in your area. They do the tests for free, and its confidential so your parents won’t find out. Most of them also do ultrasounds (pictures sort of like Xrays that take pictures of your baby in the womb) , which is VERY important because it can tell you two important things. (1) you want to measure the baby and find out how far along you are (2) you want to make sure the baby is in the uterus and not in the tubes and see the heartbeat.
    You can usually find these centers online- they offer everything for free usually, and its confidential so your parents won’t find out.
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    http://www.pregnancycenters.org

  11. Just call me Princess Says:

    The most imporetant thing is to take a pregnancy test, if you are embarassed to buy one then you can buy them on the internet. That will confirm whether you are or are not.

    If you really don’t want to go to a doctor to have an abortion then you can try a herbal abortion (a website called sister zeus) or there are also women’s groups that practice menstrual extraction.

    Other than that it’s the surgical abortion or abortion pill.
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