I’ve been married to my husband for four years where going to five. He says he does not want children but I do I want a baby. He already has I little boy from a previous girlfriend (*they were not married), but I don’t have any children at all I do want them we have talked about it but he still firm on his decision regardless on what I have to say. I don’t want want to cheat on him and have a baby from another man. He does not deserve that and I love him, I want the baby to be his. Some of my friends have told me to puncture holes in the condoms, but I can’t do that because every time after he ejaculates in the condom he grabs it and pushes the semen down to the very tip of the condom to make a little bubble and ties it up. If I do so he will find out right away when the condom starts dripping. I want it to seem like an accident. I don’t use the pill and even if I did he always ejaculates outside of me when not wearing a condom.How can I get pregnant? any ideas?? Would it seem unfair to him if I get pregnant? Am I being selfish of any kind? I’ve tried to talk to him of this matter but he just does not want kids. I need some advise.
I understand why you want to do it,
but thats kinda harsh.
He needs to respect what you want so you really should sit down and just try like really convince him to do it like tell him all the good things about it and stuff, but at the same time you need to respect what he wants.
I dont think its selfish cos when you want a baby you want a baby and you have been married for 5 years, thats long enough to be thinking about kids.
I shouldn’t say this lol but you could say your on the pill even buy it and everything and just throw the pills day by day over the back fence or something (not in your bin cos he might see them) and yeah tell him you are taking it and convince him to just cum inside you, and what you should do its go onto the website i entered below and work out the days your ovulating, just make sure you have sex them days any try make him cum inside you, otherwise i dont really know hay.
But Goodluck, x o