How can I get pregnant from my husband without him knowing?

I’ve been married to my husband for four years where going to five. He says he does not want children but I do I want a baby. He already has I little boy from a previous girlfriend (*they were not married), but I don’t have any children at all I do want them we have talked about it but he still firm on his decision regardless on what I have to say. I don’t want want to cheat on him and have a baby from another man. He does not deserve that and I love him, I want the baby to be his. Some of my friends have told me to puncture holes in the condoms, but I can’t do that because every time after he ejaculates in the condom he grabs it and pushes the semen down to the very tip of the condom to make a little bubble and ties it up. If I do so he will find out right away when the condom starts dripping. I want it to seem like an accident. I don’t use the pill and even if I did he always ejaculates outside of me when not wearing a condom.How can I get pregnant? any ideas?? Would it seem unfair to him if I get pregnant? Am I being selfish of any kind? I’ve tried to talk to him of this matter but he just does not want kids. I need some advise.

I understand why you want to do it,
but thats kinda harsh.

He needs to respect what you want so you really should sit down and just try like really convince him to do it like tell him all the good things about it and stuff, but at the same time you need to respect what he wants.

I dont think its selfish cos when you want a baby you want a baby and you have been married for 5 years, thats long enough to be thinking about kids.

I shouldn’t say this lol but you could say your on the pill even buy it and everything and just throw the pills day by day over the back fence or something (not in your bin cos he might see them) and yeah tell him you are taking it and convince him to just cum inside you, and what you should do its go onto the website i entered below and work out the days your ovulating, just make sure you have sex them days any try make him cum inside you, otherwise i dont really know hay.

But Goodluck, x o

http://www.babycenter.com.au/tools/ovu/

19 Responses

  1. ONLY 4 WEEKS LEFT Says:

    i would just tell him straight up u want a kid and thats that. why is he still using condoms? u just need to take what you want. tell him to deal with it
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  2. Tracy Says:

    Babies are nothing to play with. Unless you are willing and able to be a single mother, don’t do it.
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  3. d Says:

    This really should have been discussed before you got married. Why would you bring a child into this relationship in a deceitful way? He clearly doesn’t want anymore children and you can’t make him want one and forcing one on him will only make things worse. This, unfortunately, is usually one of the deal breakers. Either you come to terms with not having children of your own or you move on.
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  4. Want Another Mini-Me Says:

    I don’t think it is a god idea to "trick" him into getting you pregnant, that could cause some pretty serious marital issues. I would just talk and talk and talk until you are blue in the face about how you want a baby with him. Tell him how it makes you feel. If he really loves you then he will get past his fears of having more children. It sounds like he is just scared. It took my husband 7 years, but I just left him alone and let him decide when it was time. I didn’t want a guilty conscious
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  5. Halo Mom Says:

    My husband did not want children
    I did
    What we decided was to try to see what happen
    Just do not get pregnant right a way

    We agree on this, and after three years, when I finally got pregnant, he was happy. He did want a boy, and got a girl

    Marriage is about compromise
    Does he know you want a child?
    This is a good comprise
    Not extra trying, if it happens it happens

    Make sure you take a year, do not get pregnant right away if he agrees
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  6. 2kids& 1angel& #4 due in March Says:

    Am I being selfish of any kind? I’ve tried to talk to him of this matter but he just does not want kids. you answered your own question

    You married the wrong man unfortunately. if you get pregnant on the sly it will most probably ruin your relationship
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  7. cheyzell Says:

    Not a good idea, if you want to stay married to him. No it would not be fair to him to go behind his back and purposely do something you know he doesn’t want. I understand you want for children, but going about it in that fashion will only land you as a single mother. Unfortunately if he really doesn’t want anymore children and if no amount of talking to him and trying to work out having a child works, then you may want to think about leaving him and finding someone you can have children with. I wish you the very best luck. Either way.
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  8. Dee Says:

    Sorry to say it but that is the most selfish thing I have ever heard, have you even thought of how the child will feel when he realises his father never wanted him. If he truly doesnt want children and you truly do you have a major problem, did you not discuss this before you got married???

    If you cant both come to mutual decision you might be better to consider leaving him and having the child you desperately want with someone who wants it too. Its unfair to trick someone into pregnancy, its a life you are bringing into the world. Why would you want all that resentment and tension in your marriage?
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  9. baby09 Says:

    was this discussed before you were married,not wanting kids?…..it doesnt seem fair if you want but he doesnt…..i couldnt be with a man who told me i couldnt have kids because he didnt want any…..if your that desperate to be a mother,i guess you could still poke the whole and if he notice ,claim it must of been a "dud",but its a shame youd have to do it that way…….i m not sure what the right answer for your question would be,but goodluck….
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  10. kroos20 Says:

    in the heat of the moment make sure u are on top with no condom and just keep goin dont stop with he says he is cummin.
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  11. Tracy J Says:

    Wellll the only thing I can think of is to open the condom when he throws it out and insert the sperm yourself. I don’t know if it will work but you could try.
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  12. chanell_steve Says:

    i dont think that u should trick him cause wat if u some how find away to get pregnant by him n he asks u to stop the pregnantcy n u say no he is going to hate u and not love the baby like he really should n u dont want that 4 your baby
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  13. malwilhist Says:

    You can’t force someone to have a baby with you. He may not be the man for you. Either say you want kids or you can’t be with him. If he says no, then he says no and this isn’t the guy you are meant to have kids with. If you know you need kids to be happy, then you need to find a man who will be happy to have babies with you. It’s not fair to you, him, and more importantly, your kids to have a father who clearly does not want them. He’ll take out his anger and aggression on both you and the baby. Plus, if he finds out you tricked, him, then the relationship will end, anyway. This is a discussion you should’ve had early on in your relationship.
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  14. Sarah D Says:

    my man says when your on top. and hes about to c*m dont get off hit him in the stomach lmao.. yeah riduculous i know it may work and just say he hurt you or something lol… no seriously though talk to him and tell him you really want his baby .
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  15. It's a boy!! Due 3/12/09 Says:

    It is completely understandable that you would want to have children. I think, however, that the way that you are trying to go about it is wrong. it would sort of be like if a woman was raped and got pregnant and was forced to have a child without their concent. I think that your best bet is to definately not trick him, because you will always have that on your conscience, and not to make him do something that he doesnt really want to do, because what if the situation were reversed and you did not want children and he got you pregnant against your will? The best thing is to see if he is willing to compromise and if he is not then ask him what you can do so get your dreams satisfied. maybe he is not the guy for you, if you wanted kids and he didnt you probably should have talked about it before making a lifelong committment to love honor and cherish, because your life plans are different.
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  16. Expecting Baby #2 ~Due Sept 15~ Says:

    This is a hard situation. My cousin just went through this a couple years ago where him and his wife were married for a couple years and he wanted a baby and she didn’t. So about a year later they divorced. I don’t think it is fair if you trick him and get pregnant. He is obviously dead set against having another child so if you got pregnant, are you willing to except the consequences including being a single mother. I would really talk this over again with your husband and let him know that you really, really want a child. Maybe talking about it alot will soften him up.
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  17. Nicole R Says:

    Um. Wow. Did this not come up before you got married?

    Don;t get pregnant if he is not on board. It is wrong. It is extremely unfoar and cruel to force him to be a father if he does not want that. What if the situation was reversed and you didn’t want kids? It is very selfish. If you really need a child – you need to be a big girl and talk to your husband. If he still does not want this you may need to evaluate wha you really want in life.

    Tricking your husband is selfish and not fiar to your husband OR the unwanted child he will be the father of.
    Grow up.
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  18. Bub Boy Due 21/02/09 Says:

    I understand why you want to do it,
    but thats kinda harsh.

    He needs to respect what you want so you really should sit down and just try like really convince him to do it like tell him all the good things about it and stuff, but at the same time you need to respect what he wants.

    I dont think its selfish cos when you want a baby you want a baby and you have been married for 5 years, thats long enough to be thinking about kids.

    I shouldn’t say this lol but you could say your on the pill even buy it and everything and just throw the pills day by day over the back fence or something (not in your bin cos he might see them) and yeah tell him you are taking it and convince him to just cum inside you, and what you should do its go onto the website i entered below and work out the days your ovulating, just make sure you have sex them days any try make him cum inside you, otherwise i dont really know hay.

    But Goodluck, x o

    http://www.babycenter.com.au/tools/ovu/
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    38 weeks and 3 days pregnant

  19. sevenofus Says:

    Ideally the subject of having a family should have been decided before the marriage. If he did tell you he didn’t want kids and you married him anyway thinking he’d change his mind later then you’ll have to live with not having children. It is wrong on many levels to trick your husband into getting you pregnant. First, it is dishonest and a healthy marriage is based on honesty. Second, your husband deserves to help make the decision to become a father again. Sure, accidents can happen, but if you plan to deceive him it could lead to him not trusting you. Also, if he finds out that you did something to get pregnant when he has told you how he feels you could end up raising the baby by yourself. There isn’t really anything you can do except talk to your husband about how badly you want a baby. If he continues to say no than you may want to rethink the relationship. It is best to decide these things before making a commitment to marry someone.
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